Give Too Much Syndrome (GTMS)

Hey All,

It’s been a while since Sable has “said” much. We’ve finally been having wonderful summer weather in the NYC so can you blame me for being out and enjoying it?! (Rhetorical question) I digress! Have no fear Sable is here, YAY! I had dinner with my sis and a mutual friend visiting from FL some time ago (shout out to both of yous if you’re reading haha) As usual, the conversation drifted toward relationships which got Sable to thinking about a disease affecting women at an alarming rate. HIV? Herpes? HPV? None of the above. GIVE TOO MUCH SYNDROME (GTMS).

What is GTMS? How do you get it? Most importantly, how can you get rid of it? GTMS is a psychological malady that can affect women in romantic relationships of all ages. It usually manifests itself in the female psyche shortly after the woman has reached a level of comfort in her relationship. GTMS gradually takes over the female mind to the point where everything she does and says revolves around her relationship. She will no longer exhibit interests in any of her old hobbies, she constantly puts the needs/wants of her spouse ahead of her own and often refers to herself as "we" and not "I". WTF? Disturbing, I know!

Relax ladies, GTMS is curable and you don't have to compromise your relationship in the process! No pills! No rituals! No expensive therapy sessions! Just be yourself and maintain yourself. That means get out there and do the things "YOU" love, consider what "YOU" need and want first and foremost, and last but not least remember that you are "YOU".

Sable,
XOXO